Saturday, July 30, 2016

Love and relationships

we as humans always fell in love with some one slimier to us some one just act slimier think slimier behave slimier and years of evaluation has though us to pre judge people and get an Idea of what they would be and all our sensors try to find similarity and when we see that person for the first time we fell in love with him or her. since they are act and think just like us.
same as friends most of our friends are like us you may notice that, also those are that not like us we do not like them very much. it is what makes who we are, in a tribe if all members held a different opinions then it could not function, so all of them have to think as one to survive so our tribe has people only like us so it easy to manage.
so there is a neat trick if you want to be friend with some one. That is think and behave like him or her or imitate what ever they do and they will begin to like you.
as you see we do not choose our friends it's the evaluation does it for us
bottom line is if someone says that they have difference of opinions and fell in love ether they are lying or misguided to think as they have the same interests. As soon as they find it out they will break up the relationship.
or they like them for something that each other has like beauty or wealth and mistaken it for love

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