Love and relationships

we as humans always fell in love with some one slimier to us some one just act slimier think slimier behave slimier and years of evaluation has though us to pre judge people and get an Idea of what they would be and all our sensors try to find similarity and when we see that person for the first time we fell in love with him or her. since they are act and think just like us.

same as friends most of our friends are like us you may notice that, also those are that not like us we do not like them very much. it is what makes who we are, in a tribe if all members held a different opinions then it could not function, so all of them have to think as one to survive so our tribe has people only like us so it easy to manage.
so there is a neat trick if you want to be friend with some one. That is think and behave like him or her or imitate what ever they do and they will begin to like you.

as you see we do not choose our friends it's the evaluation does it for us

bottom line is if someone says that they have difference of opinions and fell in love ether they are lying or misguided to think as they have the same interests. As soon as they find it out they will break up the relationship.
or they like them for something that each other has like beauty or wealth and mistaken it for love

Enlightenment & Middle Path All over the world the people think that good & evil are two separate things and been so good will drive the evil away, but as I began to realize things, I began to search myself what is good what is evil and what separates them. Long I search I realize that they are not two but two ends of an same entity, jest as string has two ends, they exist hand to hand with each other, make one end bigger and other will follow, and make one end shorter so as the other, so how do you get rid of the evil if the good and evil exist with side by side, I was searching for an answer for many years of my times. If they both are two ends of one string how are we going to lose one end each time I try to find out I could not get an answer, and suddenly it strikes me you can’t lose one end of a string without losing the other, that is to lose one end, you have to lose the whole string itself, in order to lose evil you have not only lose evil but good itself, such a person will be no good neither evil, and he will do no good no evil, he will act on no good nor evil, no good and no evil act on him. This realize me of one thing one thing that we all was thought from our child hood the teaching of load Buddha himself the enlightenment & the Middle Path, which many try to find. Is this what he talk about what middle path is, it is not a path between middle of good and evil but a path with no good and no evil, And men who achieve it will see things as it is. He will see the continuation of life flow of nature and many things, more you hang on to one end the other will hang on to you. So giving up both of them will make you free of everything. Free to feel the world from all earthly things, things that the mere mortal will never understands, I wish I would know.

මිනිසුන් ගමන්කරන්නේ හැගීම් නැමති කලු අශ්වයාද බුද්ධිය නැමති සුදු අශ්වයාද මතයි සමහර අගමීනායකයන් විසින් හැගීමි වලට කතා කර අතර මිනිසුන් හැගීමිවලිනි මුසපත් වේ එවිට ඔවුන් ගෙ බුද්ධිය වැසීයන අතර සත්‍ය හා අසත්‍ය ඇත්ත හා බොරුව අතර වෙනස ඔවුනට හදුනාගැනීමට නොහැකිවේ පසුව මිත්‍යා දෘශ්ටියෙන් වෙලි මුලාවට පත් වෙයි

people take decision from their brain and from their hart the people that take decision from hart is emotional and brain is intelligent different is that if you are on an island with thousands of enemies and if one of you are caught witch give you choice of saving him or leaving him saving will endanger the rest of you, giving a chance to enemy to catch all. endangering the all that are not caught one with hart will not leave him even this is so, he will take the risk and endanger all jest for one but one with brain will leave him, since it will ensure the survival of the rest. I do not know what is right and what is wrong but this is the way they are. They both do things that is right to them but two actions. To each of them they are correct but to each other they are opposite so it is the wrong decision. To you it will depend on how you make decision brain or hart

this is a true story, once an old man was going on a train sitting and a Yong man was observing him. suddenly the old man took a rosary and started to pray. The young man sees this and went toward the old man and told him, see Mr. the wold has evolved and science has develop so much we have theory of relativity and so much and he explain about what the world is and you should not stay with blind faith. The old man keep listing and when his time came to get down from the train he said, you have pretty good knowledge on science I like to meet you and talk more and gave his name card and get down from the train. after he got down the young man look at the name card and it says "Albert Einstein"

Einstein has faith on god. He was the most faithful among them. He always told that god created the world and I am searching his design, the architecture that he use create. The rules he impose when creating.

all religion want one thing, to make the world a better place, all that who begins the teachings wants whats best for people. We the people divide among them and make it a war zone, shows how primitive we are. It will take lot of evolution before man get to know the true perpuse of the religions and why those who made them did it. Till that they will fight for something that's not meant to fight for

බුද්ධ බුද්ධි යනු බුද්ධිමත් භාවය යැයි සමහර මතයයි බුදුන් තමන්ගේ ජීවිතයේ් කුමාර අවධියේ විවිධ සැපසම්පත් විද අවසානයේ ගිහිගෙයින් නික්මෙයි. ඔහු සියලු අාගමි ඉගෙන ගනී ඒවා ප්‍ර‍ගුන කරයි තමන්ට අවශ්‍ය දේ ඒවායේ නොමැති බැවින් ආර්‍ය පර්යේෂණයක් කරයි. භාවනා ක්‍ර‍ම ප්‍ර‍ගුනකරයි. නමුත් බුද්ධත්වය යනු කුමක්ද? බුදුන්හට මෙම ඥානයන් පහල වුවේ කෙසේද? භාවනා ක්‍ර‍ම මගින් සිත දිවුණු වන්නේ කෙසේද? නූතන වෛද්‍ය විද්‍යාවට අනුව භාවනා මගින් මොලයේ සෛලවල ක්‍රියාකාරීත්වය වැඩිකරයි. එමෙන්ම එවා අතර සමිබන්ධතා වැඩි කරයි. මොලයේ සෛල අතර සම්බන්ධතා වැඩි වනවා සමගම එම පුද්ගයයා එක් එක් ව්ශයන් සදහා දක්ෂයෙක් වේ. නිර්මාණ කරුවෙක් වේ. බුද්ධිමත් වේ. සිතන්නට යමක් වේ. යම් හෙයකින් යමෙකුට මොලයේ සියලු සෛල අතර සම්බන්ධතා ඇතිකරගැනීමට හැකි උවහොත් ඔහුට කුමක් වෙයිද?

Who am I?

all my life I new I never belong with them so who am I what makes me different why I was crated what was the purpose is a god or nature or something else. perhaps I may never find out where I fit in perhaps I many never find who I fits in with that was a question not to be answered. I tried my best but best is not enough perhaps I should forces on me not others since they will not understand. why I'm here is it to show people or to me understand the nature of them. evolution has made cities cultures but all of us share all the primitive things that our ancestors posse anger hate and need to fight some times to death. always ready to go to war and kill that was then nature of animals fear what they do not understand and fight or flite most as humans one of the animals we also have this in built and we will fight for death if we fear something, for something that we do not understand so we fight till we die that was then nature of all even the basic animals shared by all

How a company or service come to an end?

Every company is made by two parts, white choler and blue choler jobs where one leads and one follows when leaders misleads the workers will be misled and the down fall of it will begin one of the main reasons to this is impractical people and procedures and people that lead do not have the necessary experience and qualification to lead  and when your boss is not up to the task and you get to know it fight begin you will know it want work and your boss will not people that are not up to the task recruited which make experienced to disappointment all this will make the downfall of it.
I am the observer was observing all that goes It is not my place to interfere. their doom is their own I just watch it and learn what I have to. It was always a mistake they should be left alone who am I to get in a way of mortal affairs it’s the wish of god and his decision alone I am just an observer see how primitive pre human act settle on men and how they get consume by them the thoughts and force that govern the cave man still exist on men even today and an in many the Intelligent was dominated by it.
So to their doom  who am I to save, All that has a beginning has an end so shall they.

Evolution

Charles Davin says that we the man is a result of something call evolution first there are basic creature’s water base one cell and they begin to compete to limited resources which makes the best suited for that environment survive. So to take up the challenge these one cell grouped resulting group so they have better chance of survive some become predators and feed other cellular organisms and in group the other organisms has good chance of surviving eventually these groups became permanent giving designated job to each part so mullti cell creatures ware born the control to each function is needed so it needed a command Center a brain that can control all the functions of different parts so part of the cells form to control and others form to designated functions and when this happened competition increase and predators also got evolve and cycle went on an on to fight for survival crating the world as we know it.

The basics of functions are evolved like hunger. Fear and many more in order to survive. when challenge or when sound or something that not been known come in front of you panic button is pressed the fear rush in preparing the body leading it to face the challenge fight or flite the aggression you have make it to charge at your enemy and fight or if the opponent is looks very big the only option is to flite and save the life. The decision has to be split second and one extra second may course the life of the animal so all brain function shutdown and possessing is give to deride on the primary object. and all its resource. logical thinking is shutdown since it takes lot of time to analyze and take decisions so the creature mostly rely on instincts. The past experience that it has normaly bigger the opponent harder to kill if it looks very dangerous  it most likely a opponent you need not to mess with. This was a base of surviving for all pre jugging you surroundings and the dangers you face. and rely on instinct so decision you make is of split seconds of the event happening.

 but even though man has evolve so we say the basics of these still resides with us that is way when we are feared or when we get angry we could not think strait  the logic is shut down and flight or flite kicks in. and we go rampaging. also when you panic this happens that is why when you panic at exam you no longer remember anything you brain shut down allowing you to only make decisions with instincts. This is also true to all basic needs the need to hunt and all the other primitive needs but the society and low restricts us of our basic needs so they are suppressed and we live looking like civilize people. If anyone to declare one month without low and order we will see the true nature of all   human been and how much civilize they acutely are.

As with all every creature like to kill this is in built in to them to survive humans has it but suppressed by society. That’s why there are big game hunters hunt animals and so on. Those who can bend rules bend them. Those who can’t suppress all needs and live accordingly. Conflict is in nature of humans it is inbuilt on to them and will take lot more evolution to get it out.

I would like what will happen if world declare no rules and lows for a month will these people be still act like civilized. no they will fight with each other compete to every thing kill one another assault each other in many ways. and we will certainly see the true nature of humans. what they really are.

As all the wonders of nature and so much we try to hide and try to civilize humans will always be a part of animal kingdom.